I was told awhile ago not to ask if they are ok when they look tired, unhappy or thinking about something. Probably because it would make them more annoyed. And to let them deal with their own problems in their own head.

I know it's hard when you see them struggling or in pain somehow. But let it go. Let her deal.

Your boundary question was great for sparking up lively convo!! laugh Hope you get some sleep tonight. Cuz I sure can't. Bleah.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.