W looked absolutely exhausted when I got home tonight. She was already showered and in bed. Watching tv with her phone in hand. I went directly to S10 to check in his day and S12 to find out about basketball tryouts before they had to go to bed. W did get up to tuck them in with me.
I asked her if she was tired and she said yes. I went to ask her if she was feeling OK and if she had a good day. She shrugged, said OK and went back to her phone. I let her know I was concerned, she seemed disinterested, so I went on to watch a football game on tv. Just noticed that she has turned off her light and is apparently going to sleep. I don't think she had a great day, but wasn't interested in sharing with me.
I guess I won't have to worry about the boundary I set last night. Lots of time for me to think tonight.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13