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My H has been doing things like this too. He tells me he is going to his karate class, when I know he is going. He has had these classes for months now. He has started calling me instead of texting too.

I agree with TTD, the fog may be clearing...a bit. Good stuff NQ! smile


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Sounds positive for you as well Pud smile No we've just got to get my MLCer sorted out, lol.


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Thanks TTD and Pud. It does sound positive for Pud as well.

Of course, the only expectation I've got is that the fog will descend once again. But I will take any little positive I can get for now.


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I agree, I am hesitant myself to see it for more than what it is. It's only a tick on the meter, when there are 30,000 ticks to go.


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When he starts dumping some of the baggage, maybe then I'll start getting excited. Until then, it's business as usual LOL smile


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lol I know what you mean smile If my H ever decided to return, then I'd have to make sure he's still not in touch with his "friend".


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TTD, good job on the FB thing. I also haven't looked at text records in ages.

NQ, The phone call reminds me of that time a while back my W called to see if I wanted to go to the book store. Makes you wonder what was going on in their minds right then. Dangerous place, I know!

All this talk of change makes me remember a wiser me, back when we started piecing the first time, saying "piecing is hard!"

Let's have a pact - if we ever get there (again!) we won't let anyone backslide - as long and hard as the journey to get there is, once piecing starts, there's another long hard road, and we have to fact that reality every day!

OK, enough of that. Any new Brit-Coms or comedians for me? I'm bored and have another day of vacation. wink


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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
TTD, good job on the FB thing. I also haven't looked at text records in ages.

I’m still friends with H on FB, but it’s set so that nothing shows on the news feed, and I haven’t looked at his page in months. The only contact I have with H on FB is where we both play the same games and send each other help requests. The cell phone bill still goes to him so I couldn’t snoop if I wanted to. And speaking of FB, when are you going to join us on there MH?

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NQ, The phone call reminds me of that time a while back my W called to see if I wanted to go to the book store. Makes you wonder what was going on in their minds right then. Dangerous place, I know!

Very dangerous, and scary, place eek .

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All this talk of change makes me remember a wiser me, back when we started piecing the first time, saying "piecing is hard!"

Let's have a pact - if we ever get there (again!) we won't let anyone backslide - as long and hard as the journey to get there is, once piecing starts, there's another long hard road, and we have to fact that reality every day!

Deal!

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OK, enough of that. Any new Brit-Coms or comedians for me? I'm bored and have another day of vacation. wink

Mrs Brown’s Boys has just started a new season up here but I don’t get BBC Canada in my cable package so I’ve got wait for it to make it to YouTube. I did find something called “Gimme Gimme Gimme” on YouTube the other day – my dad seemed to really like it, but I’m not too sure – may have to find another one. Lately my son has been asking to watch mainly Jeff Dunham – he did two shows up here last month and they weren’t at the casino for a change but tickets sold out before I could look into getting some. Some of the older stuff that I’ve seen on YouTube would be Porridge, Open All Hours or Are You Being Served.


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Originally Posted By: MileHigh
TTD, good job on the FB thing. I also haven't looked at text records in ages.

Thank you smile Yeah when are you going to join us on FB?

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All this talk of change makes me remember a wiser me, back when we started piecing the first time, saying "piecing is hard!"

Let's have a pact - if we ever get there (again!) we won't let anyone backslide - as long and hard as the journey to get there is, once piecing starts, there's another long hard road, and we have to fact that reality every day!


It's a deal smile You've got it mister smile

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OK, enough of that. Any new Brit-Coms or comedians for me? I'm bored and have another day of vacation. wink


Mrs Brown's boys is hilarious smile We've got the new season of BBT that's just started over here smile Citizen Khan, Hello Ladies that's set in LA and stars Steven Merchant. I can't get Hello Ladies on my cable package, but it looks good smile
Me and my son have also started watching the Jonathan Ross show, it has some good guests on there smile


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I'd forgotten about Jonathan Ross - although we have watched a few clips of They Think It's All Over with him in. My son loves the Feel the Sportsman round.


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