Intro - hoping for support/advice on DBing

[melissag]

Question . . . now that he has moved out, how much should I contact him? I'm so confused right now, because I want to give him his space, but his complaints in the M had to do with not enough affection. He said last night that for a long while he felt like I didn't even like him and would be happier without him. (That really hurt that he said that - was I that awful that I made him feel that way? Ouch.)

So I just feel wrong ignoring him. I'm not sure where to go with this.