Questions on the 37 rules and other advice...

[S4tk]

Ok...

It's about six weeks after our relocation, and I am getting stressed still living with parents. We can afford to rent or buy something, but I have been waiting for W to bring up the idea of S again. She hasn't, which might be good or bad.

At any rate, I need to initiate a discussion with her about finding a new place to live. She is currently away, in the middle of a two week trip we needed to do to wrap things up at our previous living location.

I am thinking to tell her something like this:

"W, I am seeing that it isn't healthy for you or I or my parents for us to continue to stay with them. I feel for everyone's stress levels, and in the interest of giving the kids a stable place to call home, we should look to rent a place. In which of the following neighborhoods would you be comfortable with me looking: X, Y, Z, etc."

Does this sound DB enough, considering the circumstances? Should I say this on the phone, just send an email, etc.

TB