Well it's been a while and things seem to be turning around!
My husband took it upon himself to start therapy! The therapist is awesome and has really encouraged my husband to work on his marriage. On Tuesday my husband told his attorney to put the brakes on the divorce proceedings while he continues therapy to make sure he's doing the right thing. We spent 6 hours at lunch after that having the most open and honest conversation we've had in years. I feel really hopeful! Also he started saying I love you again on Tuesday. He hasn't said that since July.
The "negative" in this is that he's still with OW but we talked a lot about that relationship on Tuesday and he made it clear the grass is not greener. It's not going well for him. He told me he would end it within a month so we can start working on the marriage. I'll feel a lot more hopeful after he actually does that. I'm afraid she'll pull him back in when he tries to end it. But, all in all things seem to be moving in the direction I want.
