Just wanted to let you know that your posts are showing up, so you might be off moderation now. I know how frustrating it is to write and not see it show up for days or weeks.

I'm older than you, but I felt like my xh was too young for a mlc too. He's only 34 now, but he fit all the signs otherwise.

He feels that he's getting old and should have accomplished so much more by now.

Sorry I can't really be of any help, but I wanted to let you know that this is a great group of people, so keep sharing your thoughts as we're all in the same boat pretty much.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13