J, here's the thing about the leap.

This is going to happen whether you want it to or not.
But how you handle it, how you grow from it, matters.

The thing of it is this, this is a journey she was meant to go on. And one in which you were, too.

You get to decide whether you walk it from a place of strength or not. You get to decide whether you walk it with dignity and honor.

This is a remarkable opportunity to become your best self. It is a chance to become the best father you can be.

It is a way to look inside and figure out what matters.

It is not an easy road, this. But oh, the rewards.

Your choice if you walk it or not. Your choice how you walk it. Your choice what you take from it.

You get to decide if you believe in you. YOu get to decide if you want to honor your marriage.

Take the leap, J. Just go for it. Dig in with both hands.