I have been doing pretty good at GAL'ing so far! No skydiving for me, but I've gone on a few hikes and have said yes to almost any activity someone asks me to do.
I haven't yet signed up for any classes which is on my list of things to do.
Getting much better at eating more regularly and better meals now, when all this started I was eating like a college freshman or just skipping meals completely.
I've learned that I dont NEED him to make me happy and I can do just fine on my own, but I am still willing to do whatever it takes to save the marriage if he shows me he's in it to win it, too.

Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis