Hi Monica, Thanks for posting on my thread! I will be sure to read your story too. It definitely makes a difference with not having any kids and being pretty young still.
My H is a complete vanisher, haven't heard one peep from him since the start and he is ignoring family now as well.
I totally agree with not looking at the phone records to save your sanity, I've done the same thing. It doesn't matter what is on there and I will only make myself nuts.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis