At what point does the detaching and GAL cross over from growing as a person to growing away from W. It feels like any consideration for W in the future is slipping and desire for R is not as strong.

Even if W were to completely flip, I think it would take a pretty big effort to consider putting in the time and energy for R. At what point does dropping the rope turn into walking away.

I'm sure its just my impatience acting up today but thought Id get the thoughts out.


me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014