Mach "You were hurt, and angry, and although you left the room to regroup, you still walked away from this. That will come across as a weakness in the eyes of a MLCer, and it makes you vulnerable to them.

How was that different, than in the past ??"

This is how I usually handle my H spewing at me, Mach. Validate what he had to say, and then walk away before I cry in front of him. Would it be better to just stand there?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17