We're not divorced yet, just in the preliminary stages. As of the last 12 months, we have been sharing 50/50 parenting. Daughter has been in the same school district the entire time. My attorney, judging from some of the discussions that W and I have had in regards to her instability to choose a home and her threats to move daughter out of the country, decided it was in my daughters best interest to file for a temporary parenting order. Up until this point, the parenting plan has just been a verbal understanding between wife and I. I had that exact verbal agreement written into my request for dissolution when I filed. Since I filed, Wife (almost a year later) has mentioned that she would like to change the parenting plan to give her more time with daughter and less time for me. Personally, I feel W is thinking selfishly, considering residence to be the same as "ownership" of our daughter. I don't believe she is making all the best choices for our daughters well-being.