How funny to read about the blank staring and stopping in the middle of a convo. I have noticed this in my H too. We can be talking and having a normal convo and then I start to say something else and he just blanks out, stares at the tv. I used to snap my fingers and say HEY, but now I realize that was condescending. Now I just look at him and wait for his return. LOL.

I love hearing your stories rH, as I have said many times before. It's so nice to read from someone who has been through this and give actual experiences, not just advice.

Ugh, RL, I would hate to see that kind of text. She sure has him on a short leash! It's something that's important only to them, not to anyone else in the world. Maybe he's getting a new leash? laugh Hang in there, you have been through so much and I admire your strength.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.