How are you doing Angela? Did you get to meet your new counselor in person? You're on my mind.

Cat04, this really scared me: "My X, was a "serial" MLCer. That is to say, he was snapped out of the first crisis period without ever completing the MLC. When he returned to the tunnel after losing his grandparents, it was done with a vengance." My H did this, was in crisis for 3 years, "snapped out of it" for 5 months, then jumped back in feet first. You say you are not reconciled; did your H ever escape out of MLC?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17