Five years. It's just incredible. I had a co-worker whose husband went through an MLC. They were divorced for 15 years or so. She was happily remarried for over 5 years, I do believe. She told me that about a year or two ago her husband started acting "differently" towards her. All of a sudden he wanted to be included in everything and at the grandkids' birthday parties he would put his arm around her. He eventually told her leaving her was the worst decision of his life. But it was too late. She was happily remarried to her second husband.
I guess the moral of the story is "be careful what you wish for cuz you just might get it".
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"