Originally Posted By: JFun51

This boundary is to protect me from her disrespecting me by texting or sexting OM right beside me in the bed that we share. It is also to protect me from engaging in a confrontation every night. She knows this pushes my buttons and continues to do it


I understand the logic believe me.

Does she control your buttons?

Can you rip that f@cking button out so she can't push it?

This is hard I know. It feels like you need a boundary here because she makes you feel like a doormat right?

You are only a doormat if you think you are a doormat.

Who are you giving permission to make you feel like a doormat ?

Your W?

Other people?

I struggled a long time with this one J

Mach can tell you I did. It kept me stuck.

It was the single most painful part of it for me.

Why would you put yourself through all this agony by standing in your M and having a W carrying on with another man right in your own MBR?


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am