W emailed me back and gave me options of when to meet up for coffee. I chose Saturday night after church. It will be the first time seeing each other in over 6 weeks, should be interesting. I'm down 18 pounds since BD to a nice healthy 186, and I don't have the PMA of a glowworm, but it's close at times.
I have not been wearing my ring, and I will not wear it that night either. I don't plan to bring up any R or M talk. I will just enjoy the time with her, ask her about life, tell her I'm refinancing the car in only my name per our phone conversation, ask for her opinion on putting the house on the market. I'm not expecting the meeting to turn anything around, but I want to show her I'm not going to try to talk her out of the divorce. Maybe it will relax things a bit.
We have been emailing back and forth daily, I'm going to tone it down a bit again until the meeting and then after it.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
