As part of the GAL process, is it normal to start to wonder if M is really worth the effort of trying to hold on to somone who wants out? Or do you learn through the process that just don't want the old M but a better one.

I know I don't want my old marriage, but starting to feel unsure if I want a new one with W. I know I am not ready for any R now and am working on being a better me. But in that, am I also losing some desire to be with W and is that normal?


me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014