I heard from him two Monday's ago and he came out to the house the following Tuesday. He never gave me a time for Tuesday, just said he was coming.
I was at carwash and perhaps this is why I haven't heard from him.
One of his complaints was that I didn't put him first. Recently it has been that I don't consider him.
I did let him know that he left to work on himself and that I could not be expected to put him first or wait around for him. This was about two months ago, when we had that exchange...it was after the door situation.
Anyhoo, not sure what is going on right now. It is very unlike him to go this long, EVEN after the bomb drop we were in constant contact.
Part of me is very concerned. Of course it makes me think if he has met someone, even though he says he doesn't want the complication. I have to expect not to believe this , right?
This is KILLING ME ! My daughter's thing is coming up and to not have heard from him and then to see him will be extremely uncomfortable!
On a good note...I will be down 30 lbs by Sunday and am now in a brand new pair of tight jeans! I'm the curvy figure, tiny waist and curvy rear. I LOVE these jeans!
Off to gymn and walk...tick tick tick _________________________
This was written on the day of the eve. he went to Lord N Taylors and purchased the women's clothing. He also was not returning my daughter's attemps to contact him about parent's weekend
I've always had a gut instinct with him, and I've never been wrong. Note to self: listen to your gut. SvCKS to be right. Knew it was a strong possibility and reeeally was hoping it didn't come to fruition.
At least he has a conscience .
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay