Rolling up my sleeves...

[RosaLinda]

I'm glad you feel better about it J, and that you preserved your male dignity; I realize from my own H that respect is very important to men. But I don't agree with this: "At least I won't have to sit and think about what she is doing right next to me." I laid down the law with my H about skyping and texting his OW in the house, and he adheres to my boundary and only does it in his own room now. But it has not helped my sanity the way I thought it would. I do not have to see or hear them talking, but my imagination runs wild!