She's doing this sh!t again tonight. I can't even attempt to go to sleep. I'm going with #3. I'll let u know how it all works out. If nothing else, I'm going to sleep.
Decisions made from anger, usually do not work well....
Your emotions will be running high, and it will turn into way more than it needs to be....
It's probably too late to change this one.
In the future, stop, and really take the time to think about WHY you need that boundary ???
I'm not sayin that you shouldn't. I am just sayin that you need to know why, deep down inside why, not a superficial why...
Originally Posted By: Gritter
Boundaries are to protect you not to punish or enforce
What do you need to protection from?
Exactly....
What exactly are your reasons to set this boundary ???
Are you just angry that she is doing this in front of you ?
Are you trying to punish her for her infidelities ???
This is exactly why we have been pushing you to find yourself.
When you stand for something other than yourself, your ideals and values are determined by your investments into them.
When you stand for yourself, then your core values will reflect the person that you want to be....
