Truegritter-I am prepared for her to sleep in another room. She has turned our MBR into her lair for the last 6 months. This is the place where she resides for 99.9% of the time she is at home. Anyone who wants to see her, speak to her, etc. has to go in there to do so. Our boys have become accustomed to it at this point, especially S10 who is very attached to her and will go in there just to spend time with her.
This boundary is to protect me from her disrespecting me by texting or sexting OM right beside me in the bed that we share. It is also to protect me from engaging in a confrontation every night. She knows this pushes my buttons and continues to do it every night.
If she refuses to respect this boundary, I will ask her to move into our game room/guest room. I do not want to give her the power to force me out of my own bedroom. I have refused to give up and leave the house. I have refused to give up and leave the bed. A man has to have some dignity.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
