Originally Posted By: indigo1
. I certainly hope the EA is over,but I'm not going to sit here and worry about it.


Hope is great but it's not a plan to live your life around.

I know you are going on your trip

Some things to think about while you are in the woods

Do think she has made any meaningful changes during your time apart?

Can you realistically hope to piece your M back together if she is still having an EA?

Do you you think her ending the EA might be a condition to you considering working on the M?

What does a healthy M look like to you?

Do you want your old M back?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am