I did get legal advice when H asked for a divorce back in June but not recently. I'm just scared I just don't know if I'm coming or going any more

M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013