Definitely needs to dump the baggage - and not just OW. He's got a female friend which I'd consider to be an inappropriate friendship - she's the same age as his boys with XW1, her boyfriend doesn't like their friendship (obviously neither she or H have any respect for the BF's feelings) and he uses her as a sounding board for his issues - both marital and with OW. Not to mention that she has her own agenda - if H offered to bed her, she'd be on him like a dog in heat.
I fully intend to let him ride out his rollercoaster. I'll take whatever positives I get, but certainly no expectations, and definitely baby steps all the way.
Blech. My H has a female coworker like this. What is wrong with some women who think its okay?! I need to adopt your PMA!!!
Welcome to the THEIR world of IMMATURITY. I'm quite certain all OPs and the potential ones are such.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
