To help with the PMA write down all the little things you are thankful for. It can be small things like "I am thank full I have running water" or more major like "I am thankful for my wonderful children".

Make it a habit of constantly looking for little things you are thankful for. If your head is full of these positive thoughts there is less room for negative thoughts.

Also, write down a list of all of your positive qualities and keep adding to it.


M 49, W 49
T28 M26
D19 D17
BD July 1, 2013
Separation agreement signed Oct 15, 2013
Still living together