This was the first sentence in my post: As long as she doesn't move out of the country or state or whatever your agreement may be, why does it matter?

I never think a divorced parent should move and make it a hardship on the other parent. But it sounds as if she's moving in the same local area. If not, I'm mistaken.

Your W had to move from the place where she was living with you, then moved to the apt above the garage and then had to move because your family didn't want her there. Are those the moves? Or has she moved 3 times since she moved out of the garage apt?

I'm not spoiling for a fight here, just saying look at the big picture. Have you talked to W at all about your concerns?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

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