K, venting here is the best thing you can do in the sitch. I really feel for you. You do need to do whatever you have to protect yourself and your kids. Have you gotten any legal advise?

If you want to chat off forum, some of us have set up FB accounts using some form of our forum user name with "DB" as the surname (or with DB included as part of the surname in some cases). We can send PMs to each other that way. If you want to do that, let us know on here and we can friend you that way.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks