While WAS was off doing who knows what for his birthday my son and I went to the mall and walked around and window shopped and goofed around for awhile, then we shared a dinner at the food court. We spent the evening finishing up painting the artwork he was making for WAS.
In the end, what we did WITH him for his birthday was just stood in the kitchen for all of 15 or 10 minutes and he opened his gifts, I took a few pictures. He thanked us and then was off to get ready for his evening.
I am also a Scorpio (Nov 15 is my birthday, I suppose I will have to make my own plans and have no expectations from WAS), but I seem to be a lot better at saving my sting for those who really have it coming.
He is certainly taking the space I give, tonight I did break down and finally called him because he was supposed to be coming home in between work and evening plans and never showed up. I realize it was probably a mistake. I have my son's IEP meeting at school tomorrow and I haven't been sleeping well yet and today I was just feeling a lot more down and neurotic. I just needed to know he wasn't dead somewhere with the car wrecked. :P
This morning I mentioned the IEP meeting tomorrow and that I was feeling kind of unprepared and nervous about it. I mentioned it might be a big help to me just to get a good nights sleep if he would consider coming home to sleep with me early Thursday morning for awhile. He said he would think about it. Now he was gone all day, so I suppose I won't get what I asked for. And I know I shouldn't have asked, it was stupid of me. I just know that he also misses sleeping in our bed, I thought maybe I was doing us both a favor.
It looks like he took most of the money out of our bank account while he was at work today. Effing ridiculous. I am going to try not to jump to any conclusions, but that certainly seems shady and wrong. It is really insulting to be treated like an untrustworthy person by the person in the sitch who is actually being untrustworthy.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
