Thanks for the positivity K, AS and Lostinpgh!
My emotions have been on a bit of a rollercoaster since the call.
But I am staying positive!

I've started a new thread since this one is over 100 posts
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2401639&#Post2401639

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope