H is moving out tomorrow. We agreed we would split the weekends with the kids. He isn't sure which night he wants. His sister is coming to town Saturday. He wants the first night at his new place to be just him and the kids, but he wants his sister to see them too (and they do love her). I am considering offering up both nights to him as a gesture of goodwill. Friday night I can go out with the girls and if he has them both nights, it will give me some time to organize (aka move some of my stuff into H's closet) and probably grieve too. I think it will be hard, but I think it would be nice to offer to H, as I think the "same old" would be me arguing for my own needs and controlling the situation.
Thoughts?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
