H: So, um how are you? Me: Good. H: Yeah, it's been a month since we spoke. How are you you? Me: You already asked me that, I'm good thanks for asking. H: So anyway, it's been over a month, and I just wanted to see where we are....(awkward silence) Me: Oh, I've been busy doing XXX (playing dumb), I thought you already filed for divorce. H: No, not yet....(awkward silence) Me: Ok, well if that's what you still want just let me know when to sign it. (Wishing I didn't say this.) H: So ok, if that's what you want I can bring the papers over to sign. IT is not what I want (if that is true for you) Me: Ok. H: Ok. Me: Well I've got to go. Good-bye. Good H: Bye.
Just don't bring it up again and if he does you can always say "can I get back to you on that" if you don't have an answer or are uneasy.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
