Sorry, I didn't add all the details of the conversation. He was referring to if I wanted to do a quick summary dissolution or to do a regular divorce in which we can discuss alimony or what not. He doesn't have the papers actually drawn up yet. Originally we agreed on a summary dissolution, but now he's acting like we never agreed on anything and the question of divorce is a new topic. Summary dissolution would benefit him more than anybody as he makes way more money than I do, and, he's been the supporting spouse throughout the entire marriage.
Sadly, I can't afford a lawyer right now. It's kind of a catch-22. I need money to fight for alimony, yet I don't have money because I have no alimony. In the end, I think I decided if he really wants a divorce let's just make this simple on both of us. I rather be more independent anyway. I think it's a good harsh reality lesson on my part.
