I dont think in general they are helping me in pursuit to be a better person because I am able to validate more and try to understand feelings.

Most of the time it does not bother me, only today has it really made me question why she comes to me or if I should continue being their for her while she still is very active with OM.

me: 30 XW:28
tgthr:4 m:1
no kids
BD: June 2013
D: Jan 2014