As long as she doesn't move out of the country or state or whatever your agreement may be, why does it matter? And this is all based on what you "think" might happen.

You're willing to make your relationship even more contentious over something that "might" happen.

I lived in the same house from my birth until I left home at the age of 21. My kids have moved 5 times since their birth. My childhood was no better than theirs. In fact, I would argue that theirs was better.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss