Hello everyone. Hi Mimi, I never signed because he never brought it up again. Which, leads me to today's discussion, I think I royally screwed up.
So, I need help. I haven't spoke to H for over a month, the longest we have gone out of contact, and he suddenly sends me a text asking me how I am, and saying we need to talk. This is where I think I screwed up because I didn't expect him to call me immediately afterwards and initiate a conversation. I just thought in my head I shouldn't act overly excited or come on as needy. So I think I pushed him too far away. Here's how the convo went:
H: So, um how are you? Me: Good. H: Yeah, it's been a month since we spoke. How are you you? Me: You already asked me that, I'm good. H: So anyway, it's been over a month, and I just wanted to see where we are....(awkward silence) Me: Oh, (playing dumb), I thought you already filed for divorce. H: No, not yet....(awkward silence) Me: Ok, well if that's what you still want just let me know when to sign it. (Wishing I didn't say this.) H: So ok, if that's what you want I can bring the papers over to sign. Me: Ok. H: Ok. Me: Well I've got to go. Good-bye. H: Bye.
So, one of two things are possible. Either I'm over thinking it and he really still wanted the divorce and nothing I said would have mattered. Or, he was feeling me out and I just confirmed that a divorce was the right way to go. (D'oh!)
Ok so I don't want to text him and try to make clear what I want and make a bigger mess of things. Please tell what to do forum. Should I just wait for him to bring the divorce papers over, or, do I say something?
