I can't remember if I posted this or not... oh moderation you befuddle me. smile

Two or 3 days ago I snapped at him about asking me to tell him if his pants looked good with his shirt. It was just one of those moments where I was fed up with all the superficial bullshit. He doesn't REALLY care what I think anyways, does he? I kind of feel like it's just a form of rubbing it in that he looks so good and has new clothes and he is headed out the door trying to look good for someone else. :P

I later apologized via a message, (hours and hours later, not immediately). It got no response, but that is the norm these days so I wasn't expecting one. I just felt it was important to indicate I was sorry for the way I acted. I also realized in retrospect that the ego stroking "You look good" is something he surely gets from OW and I may have to do my part. I don't know, maybe someone has a better perspective on this. If he is asking for my input, I should validate and encourage, right?


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WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."