Your story sounds so much like mine,my ex back in 1994 had an affair w/ an old coworker,she was 18 and he was 27 they had a 2 yr. relationship and we had just had a baby which I believe is why he stayed to work things out. Things were good for the next 13 yrs. until his mother passed away in 2006 and that is when I saw it the MLC monster. From what I have read here and in your posts he must of never finished his journey and he saw her one day told me he had all the old feelings come back for her, because back then he had decided he was going to leave us to be with her. But he stayed due to lots of family and pastors talking to him that he decided to stay.......so HE NEVER WENT THRU HIS MLC wish I knew about this place back then it might of saved my marriage
