Lois, did your H have an affair and did you confront ?
R.L. I see you are a wee bit older than I and have been at this longer. Is he still in your home? Did he bring up the A's or did you? How did you find out?
If it is too painful to discuss, I apologize to you both, I am trying to learn and understand.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay