Hi 2t2m,

I think you did AWESOME. You have conveyed to him in a polite and firm way that you are moving on regardless of what he does. You have taken back some of the power, not in a superior way, but in a loving manner, he has taken from you.

His reactions are predictable, it's part of the mlc agenda. He sees you are not responding to his outrageous behavior so he is trying even harder to get you to react, to justify his actions and fantasy world.

So I would say you ARE doing good! It's a tough, tough thing to deal with on a daily basis. Hang in there.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.