I agree! I was afraid of the legal system and paid a price because I avoided knowing my rights even though vets on here pushed me.
There are sites online where you can post questions you have anonymously and get answers from different attorneys in your state.
With so many attorneys vying for business, it makes it easy to ask questions and get answers for free. Of course, the attorneys are hoping it will lead to business for them--but, it doesn't have to.
My advice is to ask the questions, no matter how silly they may seem.
My H spent a chunk of our retirement because of my procrastination. That's money I could have used.
Now, I have to backtrack and try to get it from him in support. Much more difficult than had I known ahead of time to freeze those accounts until things were determined.
Great Thread idea!
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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