The bottle of fun wasn't very nice - won't be buying that one again. But I did sleep well so I guess it had its benefits .
H forgot to take his parade boots with him on Sunday and he needs them on Remembrance Day so he had arranged to come back to the house after his meeting to collect them along with his work clothes that he left there when he changed into his suit for his meeting. What wasn't planned was him staying until well past 11 and just talking.
Once again he must have gotten too comfortable because he had to make a comment about my dad being "the reason we have no future together for now". I will give him credit for the fact that OW texted him a couple of times asking if he was finished his meeting and he ignored her each time, but he did manage to bring her into the conversation at one point as well. One of the restaurant chains here has a Remembrance Day offer where serving military members and veterans get a free dinner on Remembrance Day if they show ID, and most years we’ve taken them up on that offer. H made a point of telling me that he was going and that he’d have company. My response was simply “We weren’t planning on going”. Although my dad is a veteran and would have eaten free, we weren’t going anyway due to cash flow so it's not a case of me changing plans because OW is going to be there.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks