I don't think she'd go for anything like that right now. I've been more focused on getting a positive mindset for surviving the holidays. I just don't see it happening right now unless she makes the first move, not me. I'm not saying it's impossible and maybe the holidays will change things but I'm just not counting on it right now. She's got to be around her family without me there for the first time in 10 years and that's going to be a reality check for her as well, which is maybe a good thing for her to experience by herself as well.
That sounds pretty bleak but it's more about me being realistic of the reality of the next 2 months and how they are going to be a challenge. It may change but my instincts right now simply don't think that's the case.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."
