I won't give up II

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BF,

I agree, this can be very confusing at times. I have decided to enforce what I can and not worry about the things that they might be doing while I'm not around.

The ow doesn't have much problem with me because we knew each other before she decided that MY h was easy prey. She has much more confidence in herself than she should, imo. If she wins the "prize" then she deserves everything that she will get. A man who is as broken as she is and will soon be as penniless as she is! She is no different than most of the ow in any mlcers life. Reading what job posted on how they Affair Down on another thread just reinforces what most of us believe. The ow is a band-aide for a much bigger problem.

As for whether he talks to her about me? I don't think he that does. According to him she controls all of their conversations and tries to control what and how he thinks. A woman like that wouldn't tolerate him talking about what she sees as her competition! LOL

Thanks for the encouragement and your thoughts. I haven't been posting much lately but have been reading archives. I will try to find your thread and catch up with your situation.