Thank you rH and Rosa. It's far and away the hardest thing I've ever done. If nothing else it's taught me about sacrifice.

Rosa, you evidently had a pretty good dude at one time. My wife was top notch too. It's impossible to give up on them. I pray sometimes that I would quit caring but I can't.

I read Amy Cs old posts often to remind myself what my W is going through.

rH, the morning after my questions about love, the scripture for the day was I Corinthians 13. Exactly what I needed.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later