Sorry to hear your news fly. How is your w's health? Maybe you should take a day or two to reflect and let your emotions settle.

You have given others some great advice on here, I am sure you will make good decisions.

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)