Perhaps there are such thing as spousal compatibility. The Chinese have this chart named Bazi to gauge compatibility between people. My W and I have had our charts read before we got M. It was bad and i mean real bad. We were worried of course but the man who read it for us did have one advice for us. Although our Bazi charts do not match, we will have to think of it as starting off in a rundown car. It will takes us to our destination if we drive carefully. On the other hand, a matched Bazi chart will be like driving a sports car but if one is not careful, accidents will happen. So there you have it. It all boils down to 'work'.
Awesome, Planet!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss