It helps if you dig deep and recognize what went wrong in your M. Acknowledge your faults and flaws. Admit your part in the breakdown of your M.
Once you reach there. Ask forgiveness from Yourself. It won't be easy. It takes a great deal of conviction to do it.
Remember this...as 25yearsmlc told me... Believe that You will be Alright Regardless of your W's decision. I have kept this close to my heart. It helped me to forgive myself.
Originally Posted By: Icecoldw
Maybe there is someone else that you are more compatable with and have a healthier relationship.
Perhaps there are such thing as spousal compatibility. The Chinese have this chart named Bazi to gauge compatibility between people. My W and I have had our charts read before we got M. It was bad and i mean real bad. We were worried of course but the man who read it for us did have one advice for us. Although our Bazi charts do not match, we will have to think of it as starting off in a rundown car. It will takes us to our destination if we drive carefully. On the other hand, a matched Bazi chart will be like driving a sports car but if one is not careful, accidents will happen. So there you have it. It all boils down to 'work'.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
