Questions without answers...I'm tired of asking.

[RosaLinda]

Hey Dawn, I can see you're really trying here. I think you did well by not pulling away; I know how upset you have been about H continuing to see EA after you asked him not to.

I'm sorry you're going thru this too, Pud. My H is just having an EA right now, as his tramp is safely back in Russia, but it hurts that he spends an hour or two talking to her on skype. Yet I have to stfu. It would really hurt even more if he was actually seeing her in person and not just on the computer acreen, like you guys have to put up with.

But Dawn, I agree with PM in that maybe a smile or "have a nice day" would be nice. I know you're trying hard and are frustrated, but your H is trying too. He's trying to show you he loves and respects you the best he can right now. You know he does not have those feelings about EA. Maybe you could go back to holding his face?